What Is A Sugar Baby?
Sugar Baby
For the uninitiated, "sugaring" is a form of dating in which one partner financially supports the other, often in the form of cash or gifts.
The Language
Sugar babies and sugar daddies are often referred to as SBs and SDs — partly for brevity's sake and partly because some people are weirded out by saying "baby" and "daddy."
There's the "meet and greet," or M&G — the sugaring community's term for a first date. Usually, money doesn't change hands here, though it's not unusual for the sugar baby to receive a small gift. Some of the things I've received on my first dates include stuffed animals, books, and $300 cash.
Some relationships are PPM, or "pay per meet" — in those arrangements, the sugar daddy gives the sugar baby a specified amount per date. In another type of relationship, sugar daddies give an "allowance" on a set schedule, like monthly or biweekly, either in cash or through a payment app like Venmo. Many relationships start out PPM, as it's less risky for the sugar daddy than setting up an allowance right away.
Close The Deal
"Experience daddies" are the ones who don't pay sugar babies in money — just gifts like fine dining, hotel stays, and glamorous vacations. A "Splenda daddy" is a sugar daddy with a cheaper budget. And a "salt daddy" is just a jerk, especially if they're faking generosity just to get into your pants.
And though the term's a bit crass, sugar babies have to be wary of what the community calls a "pump and dump" — the common occurrence of a false sugar daddy not providing any allowance or PPM, getting intimate with a sugar baby, and ghosting. To avoid falling victim to one of these, you should never initiate any intimacy with a sugar daddy unless you've already received your sugar.
What It Means To Be A Sugar Baby
A Sugar Baby is an empowered individual with exquisite taste and an appetite for a relationship filled with new experiences and a taste of the good life. She’s not constrained by traditional definitions of relationships and is Seeking to create a Relationship on Her Terms that perfectly fits her expanding horizons, desires and goals. She’s ambitious and appreciates the value of Finding a Successful Member who can be a mentor/teacher, confidante, friend, and lover and even a business partner and investor in her future.
The Sugar Baby
Sugar Babies are beautiful people seeking mutually beneficial and romantic relationship with successful Sugar Daddies or Sugar Mamas. A give-and-take arrangement with lots of fun, companionship, luxurious vacations, mentoring, and upscale wining and dining is the ideal of most Sugar Babies. Everyone's a bit different and that's why Sugar Babies on our platform can set their own high standards for the perfect dates.
Sugar Baby Wants
Many Sugar Babies obviously seek financial assistance. Beyond that, most Sugar Babies also want to form a genuine romantic relationship with their Sugar Daddies while traveling, sharing interests, and vacationing together. Someone that can mentor their Sugar Baby and uplift them in today's society. Many people would be surprised at the incredibly high rate of authentic and successful long-term sugar relationships.
Importance Of Privacy
Sugar Babies understand the importance of privacy in a Sugar Relationship and usually desire the same thing. Sugar Daddies often require discretion due to their status, work, career, and personal life. All Sugar Relationships must be created with privacy being a top priority unless the Sugar Daddy specifically states otherwise or proposes some general privacy guidelines to better form and grow the relationship.